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This topic came out from nowhere, oh I mean, naisip ko na lang, siguro for a fact na lagi kong nararamdaman. Ang pinakacliche sa lahat ng cliché. Ang pinakapaboritong topic ng lahat, at eto ang dahilan kung bakit ang matalino nagiging tanga, ang duwag nagiging matapang, ang malungkot nagiging masaya, ang luha nagiging ngiti. Clueless pa rin? Eh ano pa nga ba.. Clueless naman talaga minsan ang tao pagdating sa L-O-V-E which spells H-A-P-P-I-N-E-S-S para sa mga taong nasa cloud-9 ang pakiramdam at D-E-S-P-A-I-R naman sa mga taong pinagsakluban ng langit at lupa. Kaya iisahin ko ang problemang may kinalaman sa usaping puso at bibigyan nating ng "possible" solutions na optimistically magwowork sa mga taong tuliro at hindi na alam ang gagawin.

Love Problem 1: "It's not you..I'ts me.."
Familiar? Because it's the safest line to say na "ayoko na sa'yo"..siguro tama rin ang linyang to na wala naman sa'yo ang problema kundi dahil nararamdaman lang nya na hindi na talaga siya masaya sayo. Actually, may nabasa nga ako eh, na ang LOVE eh nagiging LOVE pag dumating yung time na wala na yung kilig factor pero you still with that person because of one word na kinakatakutan ng karamihan: COMMITMENT. Sa case ng mag-asawa, diba nagfafade din yung Kilig factor na naranasan nila nung teenagers pa sila. Yung chocolates, flowers and kung anu anu pang nakakapagbigay ng diabetes sa katawan. Pero they stay with each other not with the fact that they have children but because they are committed with each other. Kaya pag sinabi sayo na "it's not you, it's me", think of the positive side na lang na sinabi niya yun kasi kung hindi ka prinangka, you'll just have to live with a lie na kunwari ang sweet sweet niya pero pag nakatalikod ka na, mas matamis naman siya sa iba. Ouch, napakasakit nun dibah? Kapag sinabi sa'yo to, sabihin mo lang "It's a good thing you know. Alangan naman ako, na I did spent my time, effort and love. Hindi naman ako ung nawalan eh, Ikaw." then do the pamatay pivot and flip your hair. Bah, deadma. Alam ko masakit, pero ganun talaga, kailangan masaktan para matuto para next time na nagmahal ka na, you'd be careful about the decisions you make. =)

Love Problem 2: Jealousy
Nagiging suspicious kapag may dumating na text message sa cell phone nya, napatingin lang siya sa iba, nagnonose flare ka na like a dragon, maski hindi naman dapat pagselosan eh pinagseselosan na. Pumapasok ang paranoia sa utak at nagiging praning na sa lahat ng oras. Alam ko ang feeling kasi aminado ako selosa rin ako. Unconscious ang pagiging selosa, pero kapag nakakakita ako ng ganun, nagaaway sa kalye dahil lang sa tumingin yung lalake sa iba, at kulang na lang mag world war 3, nasabi ko tuloy sa sarili ko, pangit palang maging over-jealous. Unang una nakakasira ng poise at pangaalawa nagkakaroon ng distrust na pwedeng makasira ng isang relasyon. Ang dapat gawin ng isang selosa, magkaroon ng confidence. Have time for yourself. Magpaganda ka, Gawin mo yung gusto mo, Girl-bonding, etc etc. kasi if you'll spend your time with your guy all the time, 24/7 eh masasakal talaga yun. One reason kung bakit may jealousy dahil sa walang certainty. Sa sarili at sa taong mahal mo. In the first place, bakit ikaw ang napili niya kung hindi niya alam na you are loveable enough to love. From a pool of people, ikaw ang nagstand-out sa mga mata niya. Kaya be confident, girl! Kasi ikaw ang minahal niya at hindi yung mga taong pinagseselosan mo.

Love Problem 3: Contentment
Minsan talaga ang tao hindi kuntento. Gusto ng ideal guy na pagsisilbihan,paglalaba, pagluluto , ipaglilinis, ihahatid siya at etc etc. Maghanap ka na lang kaya ng katulong na pwede mong utusan? Hehe. At meron naman ng iba, ang gusto eh bilhan siya nang kung anu ano, magopen ka na lang kaya ng bank account mo para mabilhan mo sarili mo ng gusto mo gamit ang sarili mong pera. Minsan kasi lampas heaven yung expectation natin sa taong mahal natin.What makes a person is his imperfections. Kasi kung perfect ang mahal mo, eh malamang mataas ang standard nun at siguro hindi na ikaw yung pipiliin niya. Ako, dati, ang dami dami kong gustong qualifications, dapat mabait, gwapo, bibigyan ako ng roses araw-araw, ihahatid ako, idadala ako sa mahahaling kainan pero naisip ko, masyadong wala nang thrill. Sabi nila Big things comes from small packages. Mas maganda yung napapangiti ka sa mga corny jokes, kumakain ng fishbols pero masaya naman kayo, mga ganung spontaneous na bagay, kasi hindi naman mapapantayan ng material things ang happiness na pwede mong maramdaman dahil sa mga simple gestures na hindi man ganun kaengrande pero it'll give you a lasting memory.


EPILOUGE:

Hay, LOVE, a four complicated letter, well, figuratively..

Alam ko marami pang problema ang maiaassociate sa love. Pero ang best advice of all, LOVE YOURSELF first.. =)
Kasi kung nasaktan ka, walang ibang matitira sa'yo kundi yang sarili mo..pero habang kaya mo magmahal ka ng buo at totoo.
Hayyyy, napakaoxymoron ng love..






Kyle: I thought it was good to help?
Josh Trager: It is, but, it has to be a secret.
Kyle: A secret? Is that lying?
Josh Trager: How can it be lying if we're not saying anything?

tama nga naman dibah?






p.s: this article reaally made me laugh..^_^ i saw it on rico blanco's old blog.. http://lagim.multiply.com/

GUYS' RULES
At last a guy has taken the time to write this all down

Finally, the guys' side of the story.
(I must admit, it's pretty good.)
We always hear "the rules"
From the female side.


Now here are the rules from the male side.
These are our rules!
Please note... these are all numbered "1"
ON PURPOSE!

1. Men are NOT mind readers.

1. Learn to work the toilet seat.
You're a big girl. If it's up, put it down.
We need it up, you need it down.
You don't hear us complaining about you leaving it down.

1. Sunday sports. It's like the full moon
or the changing of the tides.
Let it be.

1. Shopping is NOT a sport.
And no, we are never going to think of it that way.

1. Crying is blackmail.

1. Ask for what you want.
Let us be clear on this one:
Subtle hints do not work!
Strong hints do not work!
Obvious hints do not work!
Just say it!

1. Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.

1. Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. That's what we do.
Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.

1. A headache that lasts for 17 months is a Problem.

See a doctor.

1. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument.
In fact, all comments become null and void after 7 Days.

1. If you won't dress like the Victoria 's Secret girls, don't Expect us to act like soap opera guys.

1. If you think you're fat, you probably are.
Don't ask us.

1. If something we said can be interpreted two ways and one of them makes you sad or angry, then we meant the other one

1. You can either ask us to do something
Or tell us how you want it done.
Not both.
If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.

1. Whenever possible, Please say whatever you have to say during commercials.

1. Christopher Columbus did NOT need directions and neither do we.

1. ALL men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings.
Peach, for example, is a fruit, not A color. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have no idea what mauve is.

1. If it itches, it will be scratched.
We do that.

1. If we ask what is wrong and you say "nothing," We will act like nothing's wrong.
We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle, besides we know you will bring it up again later.

1. If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, Expect an answer you don't want to hear.

1. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine...Really.

1. Don't ask us what we're thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as baseball, the shotgun formation,
or golf.

1. You have enough clothes.

1. You have too many shoes.

1. I am in shape. Round IS a shape!

1. Thank you for reading this.
Yes, I know, I have to sleep on the couch tonight;

But did you know men really don't mind that? It's like camping.

Pass this to as many men as you can -
to give them a laugh.

Pass this to as many women as you can -

to give them a bigger laugh






Once upon a time there was an exquisite princess who tenderly lingers for her chivalrous prince, she patiently waits, hoping that one day,
the prince will come..
The prince on the other side, prays that one day, in his quest, he will find warmth and amour in the arms of the fragile princess..
One day, the princess decided to take a walk in the palace' forest to pick blueberries. In her delight, later she knew, she was lost..
She cried because she didn't know the trail back to the palace. She lamented for help, but no one can hear her..
To wash away her worries, she just sings, hoping, that it will keep her amuse despite of being lost..then, suddenly she heard some strange noise..somewhat like a..like a..Lion!
she run and run and run..not knowing where to go, then a man with a horse came to her rescue..He held his hand on the princess and let her ride on his horse to glide away from the lion.
and at last, the princess was already unscathed and as she drew her eyes on the prince, her chimerical dreams has finally come true..
and as for the prince, his quest is over..
he finally found his cherish..
in the arms of the delicate princes and they lived happily ever after..


*weeh.. my own fairy tale =).. well, i realize something, that if you're inlove..take note: INLOVE.. you can be mushy all the time..









i made this pop art out of boredom.. ^_^






stars were made for sky,
angels were meant to fly,
losers were bound to try,
while actors in movies cry.

the plain canvass
needs colors
and star wars leaps for force..

everything has its own destiny,
and faith crosses the boundaries,
everyone needs to believe in theirselves..
to shine like a star..
to stand out alone..


*just want to inspire everyone with this poem.. =)

hi! i'm lynet! i'm practically nice, but it's just that i'm not nice to everyone..i'm not a poser nor one of the herds..i'm just random and i know what i want.. so this is my blog so Click here if you hate it..anyway, this blog is better viewed in M.F.ciao!




*[lynnette]*[feeling 19]*[devious]

ang babaeng nakakahawa ang kabaliwan...gusto mo hawaan din kita..???^_^

no matter how fiercely i try to live like an adult--flexible, powerful, and independent, this girl-child on me hangs on, whispering frightening warnings in my ear..

appreciates YUMMY FOOD..(spaghetti, anything pasta and sweets..!!! definitely, i'm a food monster..)

fragile, unarmored creature and self-doubting(sometimes lang naman..)
i have a paradoxical personality..inside my silent-aleck exterior was a revengeful woman, disturbed by the fact that people judge me according to their own perspective..not knowing that i can be a fighter, and would slog through its muddiest parts undaunted..(hehe..tapang!)


Childish..i still keep the happy kid in me...

a girl with a million th0ughts..

i have this trait called "WHOLEHEARTEDNESS"--the ability to be without pretense, to be emotionally sincere, to be able to put the whole of oneself into one's feelings, one's work and one's beliefs...

i rant, rave, and scream and i live without regrets.. (happY!)


current m00d k0!!!
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[internet]xx [chocolates]xx[music overdosed]xx [mademoiselle]xx[frenchkiss]x [butterflies]xx
[freedom]xx [movies]xx[kwek2]xx[ E-R-I-C-K]xx
[15]xx[photography]xx[pens and papers]x

What does my handwriting say about ME?

You plan ahead, and are interested in beauty, design, outward appearance, and symmetry. You are a shy, idealistic person who does not find it easy to have relationships, especially intimate ones. You are affectionate, passionate, expressive, and future-oriented. You are not very reserved, impatient, self-confident and fond of action. You enjoy life in your own way and do not depend on the opinions of others.


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